Visions & Views from a Visiting Voyeur

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Why am I up so late? Well I actually just got off of work. I have actually spent the night talking to different people with lots of questions, comments and frustrations. I love that my job allows me to go to school but sometimes the frustration meter goes up really high with those lovely people who talk to me night after night.


I was thinking about people today. Why do we have so many unspoken rules? And why if a person doesn’t know the rules are folks so quick to push them out? In the Sociology realm we call these norms or mores. And we call the one making the rules the in group and those not following the rules the out group. As my name implies, I tend to be in the latter group. One question I always find myself asking is how do I know how to respond or know what a person is trying to convey or want if they don’t tell me verbally? Oh I understand that there are nonverbal cues. But one cue can mean several different things to different peoples and groups. So what is a gal to do?


So the question on my mind tonight is how do I know he is interested? This of course brings to mind two particular clips…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sCWvVSE0WMk&NR=1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWX95Pmipow&feature=related


So I guess I’m the rule… and besides the fact that it seems he came by me a few times and also asked about me twice part of me thinks that he may just be a nice guy and that’s it. Still not sure but perhaps deciding to not play might be the best option. What do you think? Ta ta for now…


1 comments:

I´m not the right guy to give advise I´m afraid :-) I keep avoiding relationships at all costs :-) :-) :-)

But I can tell You that those videos are very right!

I cross my fingers for You no matter what You do :-)

Have a great day now!
Christer.

Who is the better cook?

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